I want to shout it from the rooftops
I think the optimal strategy in the market for love is emotional volatility arbitrage. Much like LTCM’s strategy of convergence trades, the aim of emotional volatility arbitrage is to reduce the risk of destabilizing shocks in one’s life. If happiness in life is a function of expectations, then to expect too much is to invite disappointment and be unhappy. In view of the inevitable regression to the mean in life, we should have low expectations that are almost always pleasantly exceeded, rather than high expectations that always lead to disappointment.